I was in the back of a taxi, weaving through traffic, speeding across the Yangtze River Bridge. It was the middle of the night. I was with friends, a Canadian and a Chinese co teacher named Daisy. The driver suddenly realized that we weren't speaking Chinese. He asked Daisy where we were from. She told him. He smiled a big toothy grin, looked in his rear view mirror and said in Chinese "Americans are welcome in Wuhan. Iraqis aren't." I haven't felt any animosity towards me from the Chinese about being American. (Granted, I might not notice because of the language barrier.) The other foreigners in town however, are a different story.A stereotypical American: An obnoxious ignorant redneck...arrogant and disrespectful, constantly awaiting the opportunity for someone to fuck up so they can sue. I've sat through entire lunches where the people I know rag on America. I've had others express surprise when they get to know me, exclaiming "I always just assumed all Americans were like the people on Blind-date". People are quick to define me by my country... to tell me what I think and why. While there is a lot of banter and joking going on, there isn't much of a discussion.
As Lillis points out, we should look at what America is offering the world: Blind-date...Britney Spears. If these are the things we value and export, no wonder people think of us as they do. America obviously has more to offer than the worst of pop-culture. The fact that these things are popular elsewhere in the world isn't just a reflection of the people back home.
Unfortunately, the negative sentiment, the disappointed looks people give me when I tell them where I am from, have to do with what my taxi driver commented on. It's not about popular culture; it's about politics. While I don't support the administration or the way things are, I won't just shrug it off and say I voted for the other guy. I'm an American. Maybe I'm frustrated, but I'm not going to move. So by being American, I am supporting the things that I don't . But should individuals be held responsible for the actions of their government?
Stereotypes and generalizations can be dangerous. They can too easily foster hate without understanding. I think that anyone who automatically defines a person based on where they are from is just as close minded as the pigheaded Americans they are condemning. And if people got to talking they would probably realize they are frustrated about similar things.
P.S. If I use my experience as a sample, the stereotype that the American abroad is the most obnoxious, arrogant, and disrespectful would prove false. It would be a three way tie between the Brits, the Canadians, and my fellow countrymen. :)
Also... the picture is of a pair of flip flops (or should I say "freedom flops") I bought at a dollar store in New Jersey......


